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How I Turned a Diamond Dealer Into My Footstool-Female Domination NYC
Luxury femdom in public. A diamond dealer knelt to remove my heels in a NYC shoe salon, and carried my bags like it was his purpose.

Ulla Burns
Nov 152 min read


No Safeword for the Soul -Maternal Domination without a script
He said he wanted to go deep. What he found was a woman who doesn’t perform power, she is the power. This isn’t kink. It’s a quiet undoing.

Ulla Burns
Oct 273 min read


The Psychology of Foot Fetish: Desire, Power, and Devotion.
Foot fetish is not rare—it’s timeless. From knights kneeling to modern devotion, NYC Mistress Ulla Burns reveals why arches, soles, and toes undo even the strongest men.

Ulla Burns
Sep 272 min read


Masculine Submission Is Refinement, Not Weakness
Masculine submission is not collapse, it is refinement. True surrender does not strip a man of his strength; it sharpens it. To kneel is not weakness, but proof of confidence, discipline, and devotion.

Ulla Burns
Sep 173 min read


The Psychology of the Mommy Domme: Ritual, Correction, and Erotic Control
Some men don’t want to be humiliated, they want to be corrected.
Part II of The Maternal Mindfuck Series reveals why Mommy Domme rituals, rules, and punishment feel like love to the ones who ache for her control.

Ulla Burns
Aug 132 min read


The Psychology of the Lost Boy: Why Some Men Need the Mommy Domme to Feel Whole Again
Some men don’t crave pain, they crave correction. They don’t want to be humiliated… they want to be kept.
In this first part of The Maternal Mindfuck Series, Ulla Burns unravels the lost boy archetype: the powerful man who secretly longs for rules, ritual, and the quiet control of the Mommie Domme. He doesn’t need freedom. He needs to be rewired.

Ulla Burns
Jul 313 min read


The Shadow Archetype in Masculine Submission
You lead in the world. You hold it all together. But behind your strength, there's a shadow—one that longs to kneel, to serve, to please. In this post, I reveal why true masculine submission isn’t weakness... it’s sacred instinct.

Ulla Burns
Jul 202 min read


How Masculine Surrender Creates True Freedom
You lead. You decide. You carry the weight of the world without complaint. But deep down, you crave something you can’t find in boardrooms or accolades: the freedom to kneel. The quiet surrender that feels like coming home. Discover why masculine devotion isn’t weakness, it’s the most powerful choice you’ll ever make.

Ulla Burns
Jul 63 min read


Femdom Isn’t Porn: What Submission Really Means
What if everything you learned about dominance was just mimicry? Discover what real surrender feels like.

Ulla Burns
Jul 63 min read


The Cost of Access: Why Real Men Tribute Before They Speak
What separates a submissive man from a boy begging for attention?
Tribute.
Not as payment, but as posture.
This is a reflection on what access truly costs… and why the men who send first are always the ones who stay.

Ulla Burns
Jun 222 min read


Glossary of Kink & Fetish | The Rituals Index
Explore the ultimate glossary of BDSM, Femdom, and Financial Domination. Ulla Burns defines the rituals, kinks, and power dynamics that drive elite submission, psychological surrender, and luxury control.

Ulla Burns
Jun 75 min read


Tie & Tease: NYC BDSM Surrender
Exploring the world of Tie and Tease and erotic edging is excellent for those new to the world of BDSM or simply for those who want to a more relaxed approach.

Ulla Burns
May 251 min read
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